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Friday, March 27, 2009

Can you get over the not so fresh feeling?

Do you ever have that not-so-fresh feeling down below? On "The Doctors," a woman by the name of Jennifer, struggles with it and is looking for a way to smell good all the time. "The Doctors," had a solution that they wanted Jennifer to try.

“Douching, I’ve always said, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad,” Dr. Lisa says, “because the vagina is a self-cleaning oven and has a normal vaginal acidic pH that keeps the bacteria away and yeast away. All of us women are worried about odors down there, and that’s very, very real. We want to smell fresh. Every woman thinks it’s supposed to have this perfumey odor, when, in fact, it really shouldn’t smell like anything.”

Foul odor in the vaginal area is often due to an infection, Dr. Berman explains. Keeping the area clean by washing with soap and water daily is essential, but hygiene is not always enough.

Dr. Berman displays WaterWorks (, the only product approved by the United States Food and Drug Administration to get rid of vaginal odor. Tap water flows through a stainless steel nozzle, which helps reduce unwanted odors without harsh chemicals or perfume cover-ups. The water flows downhill, as opposed to douching, which propels fluid upwards. The nozzle is placed in the vagina, and the steel and water come in contact with the wall of the vagina and eliminate foul smells by flushing out odor-causing bacteria.

If you go to the Waterworks website, they do have interesting information about odor and your health. If you don't buy the product, you should read the information for your own education.

Interesting item. I, on the other hand, do not think that you need to buy a special instrument to clean the intimate area. I think any extended shower head can clean the area and is probably already in your shower (unless you have a fixed shower head). However, for about 30.00, it may not be a bad buy. I appreciate any comments from those who already own one!

Monday, March 23, 2009

Are thongs bad for our health?

I was watching an all women's show of the Doctors on CBS and one of the topics of the show was "Are Thongs Wrong?" I don't know about you, but this show really caught my I will divide the show up into different blogs and let you know what the "Doctors" say!

While wearing thongs may eliminate panty lines, they can also bring about other, more harmful problems. By exclusively wearing thongs (now I'm thinking..thank goodness I mix it up!), women put themselves at risk for urinary tract and yeast infections because bacteria can travel up the string of the thong into the urethra and vagina, "which is really the source of what the problems are,” Dr. Berman says.

Dr. Lisa advises wearing cotton underwear that breathes, because it will help keep the vagina at a healthy pH balance. “No spaghetti-strap kind of underwear,” Dr. Lisa says. “You need to wear cotton-crotch underwear, so no nylon. They need to have a good fit, and if you can, go commando at night.”

The point is, mix it up ladies! I was a little surprised by the "commando at night" approach. But who am I to argue with a Doctor!

Friday, March 20, 2009

Rekindling Passion in your relationship!

Ever wondered how and why you become attracted to someone or how to know if they're feeling the same way? Or what about how to get back those first feelings of tingly chemistry? Read on to find out the number-one sign of passion and five ways to rekindle it once it fades.

"The most important sign of attraction is mutual eye contact," says Beverly Palmer, Ph.D. and professor of psychology at California State University, and who is also a spokesperson for the American Psychological Association. "This is a brief glance, initially. It is not a stare, because staring is hostile." If a woman glances at a guy and he notices, he'll probably glance back. In turn, the woman will probably look again, and if he's interested, he'll look again. This repeated volleying of eye contact is an indication of mutual interest and can lead to more body signals.

Beyond Initial Attraction

From the first stage of relationships -- passion -- there is a progression towards what is considered the second and third levels of being a couple -- emotional intimacy and commitment. "That passionate part really only lasts a maximum of two and a half years, if people are in continuous contact," says Palmer. This stage relies heavily on nonverbal attraction. Emotional intimacy can develop very early on, but that's "what can grow and keep partners attracted to each other."

Human "Preening"

After initial eye contact, if two people are attracted to each other, one or both people will engage in "preening" behaviors -- they will touch a part of their body that accentuates what they think is particularly sexually attractive, says Palmer. A woman might throw back her shoulders, lick her lips or touch her legs. A man may straighten his tie, stand with his hips jutted forward or put his fingers through his belt loops. "These kinds of initial, nonverbal gestures occur at a less than conscious level, not in a manipulated or conscious way." Preening behaviors, however, are noticeable to the person on the observing end. Witnessing these behaviors could be an indication that this person is attracted to you. You may also become aware of the attractive physical features that they are "preening."

Mirrored Body Language

Around the same time that preening behaviors are occurring, mirrored actions may appear between a pair, reaffirming mutual attraction. "If one crosses his legs, the other will cross her legs. It is an additional body language that says 'I'm interested in you,'" according to Palmer. At this point, both players become aware of their behavior and ask, "Should we go to the next level?"

Should You Follow Your Nose?

With the number of colognes, perfumes (thank you Britney and Diddy), deodorants and body lotions available on the market, you would think fragrance was the number one determinant of sex appeal and relationship success. Maybe, but probably not, says science. Pheromones (chemicals that travel through the olfactory system to the brain), can trigger either a biological or behavioral response, and may account for changes in libido. But this does not necessarily provide an explanation as to why you find one person more appealing than another. "There is some research that says pheromones could play a part in attraction, but it's more complex than that. It's usually sight," that triggers attraction, says Palmer. And often, people are attracted to the stereotypical standards of beauty, she says.

Looks vs. Personality

Looks aren't everything...really! If you think you're destined to a life of soul-searching singledom, results from a 2007 study on attractiveness and personality published in "Personal Relationships" may give you hope. Psychology researchers found that people who have positive personalities were rated as more attractive than average, and conversely those whose personality traits were judged to be negative -- such as unfair or rude -- were less appealing physically.

Do People Have "Types"?

What people are really looking for in a long-term partner -- not consciously -- is someone they feel will complete them or fulfill unmet needs, says Palmer. "If you feel that you're not good at making initial social contacts, you'll be attracted to someone who you feel is very socially skilled." Or, if you have unfinished business with a parent, ex or other person from your past -- maybe you never felt like you earned their approval -- you then become unconsciously attracted to a person that will set up that dynamic with you, so you can earn the approval that you never felt. "That's why people could appear to have 'types' if the person is similar to the person they dated before."

Does Passion Have to Fade?

Those feelings of initial attraction and chemistry can remain in long-term relationships and marriages, but they may not always be at the forefront. The reason, Palmer explains, is that because when emotional intimacy comes into play, people realize that commitment and understanding usually trump physical attraction. However, says Palmer, when there's any indication that one partner's level of attraction, emotional connection or commitment is waning or has disappeared, it sends a message to the other: "My partner is not as attracted to me as she or he used to be. Uh-oh the attraction is gone."

1. If You Hate His/Her Voice (Body Odor, Taste, Etc.):

He may have made you swoon and get weak at the knees at one point, but by now you've seen him at his best and his worst -- and those not-so-appealing characteristics and habits you may have once overlooked may be grating on your last nerve. "Try to make those features that you are attracted to outweigh those that you're not attracted to," suggests Palmer. "When characteristics you overlooked initially come out more and more, there are such a wide range of sensual characteristics that you can focus on that you can be attracted to those." Focus your attention on them instead.

2. Rekindle the Romance

Not to fear if you're past the two-and-a-half year mark when passion may begin to fade -- there is a way to recall those initial moments of stolen glances and tingling hand-holding. You have to remember to tune in to those sensual elements of touch, taste, sight, sound and smell. "A lot of times we just tune out -- because we're so focused on our anxieties, stresses, thoughts -- that we don't tune in."

3. Set the Mood

The actual environment that you're in can affect your level of attraction, no matter what relationship stage you're in, says Palmer. "You can manipulate the situation to make the attraction stronger." For instance, when comparing dilated pupils to contracted pupils, people find the first -- or wider pupils -- to be a sign of interest and attraction. A candlelit setting or sitting by the fireplace -- traditional romantic staples -- can have this affect on eyes, says Palmer.

4. Be Afraid

"When people's fear is increased, they tend to have the same hormones activated as the ones that are activated in sexual attractions. And you can interpret that reaction as, 'Oh, I feel closer to this person I'm with in this fearful situation,'" Palmer explains. Whether you're on a rollercoaster ride or watching a scary movie, being frightened can give you that rush that can cause you to grab for the person you're with.

5. Get Closer

Even if you feel like you've passed the engagement stage, "being in a honeymoon setting will further the chances that you'll be sensually connected to each other," says Palmer. Participating in outdoor physical exercises together is another way to get closer and help you tune in to your senses, which in turn will help you tune in to your partner's senses and begin exploring sensuality together.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Sexy Things ARE best, Part 2!

A few days ago, I told you about a UK survey that stated some UK men prefer to see their women in a Soccer Jersey, rather than lingerie. Well, I think I found a great cross of lingerie and US football jerseys! The Lingerie Football League is starting up in September...and there replica uniforms are being sold for 175.00 per set! If you're into it, then maybe that will get your man's blood cooking in the bedroom! If that price tag scares you away, I also have a Dreamgirl set in my store that looks very much like the replica uniforms (and it's on sale right now for $18.00!), minus all the numbers and team info:

The replica jersey looks like this:

I for one can't wait to see this Lingerie Football League in action. They have been hyping them up to get men excited, but I love girl power! You go girls!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

The Best Ladies Night In New Jersey! Host a Naughty and Nice Lingerie Party!

Do you live in the New Jersey area and want to host a safe and fun ladies night out right in your own home? Why not host a Naughty and Nice Lingerie party? Invite 10 or more friends and have a fabulous ladies night in! Beautiful lingerie, free gifts, special party pricing and discounts,games and special party discounts = one "funtabulous" party! And let's not forget the special hostess discount! Email me for more info!

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Friday, March 13, 2009

Say it isn't so! Sexy Little Things ARE best!

Football Jerseys versus Lingerie?

Ladies, we have a big problem on our hands. A recent survey of 2,000 UK men found that they would prefer their lovers in a jersey associated with their football (soccer for those of us in the US) club than in sexy lingerie.

The poll found that 34% of the men surveyed found women to be sexiest when found in a football jersey.

Only 23% favored provocative lingerie, and 16% prefer skimpy costumes (such as a “sexy nurse” or “naughty schoolgirl”)..

I can’t be the only one floored by these poll results! Indeed, the website who hosted this survey, MyCelebrityFashion, said, “Women everywhere always had a sneaking suspicion that blokes like their football or rugby team more than they should…but to find out that they find women more attractive in bed when they are wearing a football or rugby top is maybe taking it a little too far.”

My husband, being from Ireland, does love is football (soccer) club...Liverpool. He is even the President of a New York Chapter of supporters! We have planned vacations around But him prefering the jersey over sexy lingerie is not true for him..thank goodness!

I know sports are important to many guys, but I can’t see how any sane man would rather come home to find a baggy old polyester t-shirt waiting in his bedroom instead of something more a little number like this:

I suggest that tonight (and, well, almost every night), every lady around the world puts on her most provocative lingerie and remind her man why the sexy little things are best!

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

7 Things Men Really Find Romantic

Men aren't supposed to get all mushy-gushy, right? Well, that's the stereotype from past practice, anyway. Men may not always like to call it romance, but they feel the same yearning to connect that women do, to give and receive physical expressions of love and to continue the rituals of courtship. In short, they want to "feel the love"...and they secretly want women to romance them. Now, let me clarify that the flowery stuff, the roses, and candlelight, just isn't a guy thing. So skip the sweet little trappings and go for what's guaranteed to work.

#1. Dress Up for Him

"Consider dressing for his tastes and not just yours once in a while," says Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D., author of "Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know." "Take him shopping and have him choose outfits he would like to see you in."

Remember, you're doing this for him, not for you. And, as psychologist Ronald Goldstein, Ph.D., a marriage counselor in Newtown, Pennsylvania, explains: "Women should keep in mind that men are visually oriented." Trust me, men find it very romantic when you step wholeheartedly into their little fantasy worlds. If they're hard-wired to be turned on by visual cues, why not indulge them -- and use it to your advantage?

#2. Initiate Physical Affection

Whether you're playing footsie under the table or placing a hand on their shoulders while scooting behind their chairs, men find the touch of the woman they love unbelievably reassuring. In a treasured nonverbal language, it translates as: "I accept you... I love you... We're a team."

#3. Give Him a Night Out with the Boys -- No Strings Attached

It may seem odd to you that a romantic gesture might not involve you at all. But dogs run with dogs, wolves run with wolves, and every so often, guys just have to break away and run with the guys (drooling and howling optional).

#4. Tell Him What a Big, Strong Guy He Is

Men are famously incompetent at expressing ourselves verbally... but that doesn't mean they don't appreciate hearing a little praise now and then. In particular, they draw a lot of their identity from their maleness. Nurturing their big-ape fantasies -- me Tarzan, you Jane -- lets them know you value them as males, which is somehow important to the continued production of testosterone.

A quick insight into men: They all want to be heroes. Remembering to compliment your mate on being a great partner isn't always easy in the middle of a busy day, but it's a quick shortcut to making him feel wanted, needed, and loved, which is of course the ultimate point of any romantic gesture. And this positive reinforcement of your mate's good behavior will yield big dividends later, as he subconsciously tries to live up to your glowing appraisal.

#5. Score Him a Pair of Tickets to the Big Game

Which would you rather receive from your mate: a weekend at a spa or a new set of cookware? The spa is by far the more romantic gift, if only because he doesn't stand to gain anything from it. Gifts that don't benefit the giver are somehow purer because they demonstrate you care only about making your partner happy. So when you're thinking about gifts, try not to think about what you'd like to get him, but what he'd like to receive.

#6. Show Interest in His Outside Life

We live in a fast-paced world, and we all know it's easy enough to get wrapped up in our own routines. But finding ways to let a man know you care about all aspects of his life, not just the parts he shares with you, is a great way to show you love the whole man. Shoot him a few well-directed questions about work to help him unwind, surprise him with a book relating to a hobby, track down a website that deals with some problem he's having -- all are touching gestures that will be well received.

#7. Tell Him a Secret

Men want to be soul mates, too. Telling him a secret -- symbolically letting him deeper inside you -- demonstrates total trust in him and faith in your relationship. Because you're making yourself vulnerable, it's an incredible bonding experience. What works just as well: Encourage him to tell you a secret or two. And don't laugh.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Same fabulous looks for less!

If you don’t have the money to spend on expensive lingerie, that doesn’t mean you can't have the taste for it! Here are some pieces I found that are very expensive, and the look a like that is listed in my store! Amazing! My item is the last item with the pink backround. You don't have to spend a million dollars to look like a million dollars:

Satiny Chemise:

Lace babydoll:

Triangle Bra Set:


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